We all want to set good examples for our kids; washing our hands before dinner, using a seat belt at all times, crossing at the crosswalk, etc. But sometimes, we have to use our bad examples to make a point as well. No point in pretending to be perfect, right?

This was the case one morning earlier this week as we enjoyed our family breakfast together. My husband decided to use me as an example of exactly why it is important to use sunscreen. Yes, I forgot! We enjoyed our community pool this weekend and I failed to put on any sunscreen. You would think I was lying flat on my belly during the entire afternoon, because my back looks like Anton's bright red fire engine! Remarkably, my face is fine. (By the way, it's NOT true about getting sunburned only when laying still. I was busy chasing our almost-swimming 3-year old around the pool.)

Back at the breakfast table the following day, Christer decided to teach the kids a lesson. He turned me around and proceeded to demonstrate to them why sunblock is so important. At first, I was horrified that he was using me as a bad example. I mean, for 3 and 6 years, respectively, Anton and Kelly have assumed Mommy and Pappa know everything. Then I realized that maybe it isn't so bad if they realize that even Mommy makes mistakes. (And that skipping on the sunscreen is not a very good idea; ouch!) Besides, Kelly is 6 going on 16... It is only a matter of days before we hit the 'parents know nothing' phase. I might as well get used to it.

HINT: I discovered a clever little item a few years back. It is a wash that makes your clothing more UV protected. It is called SunGuard. It is made by Rit, the dye company. You can find out more on their web site